The majority of children who meet Mr. N have no idea whatsoever how to greet dogs properly. They run up to him yelling "puppy" at the top of their lungs or grab at his face or want to pick him up or hug him. All of these can be risky behaviors around dogs, especially strange ones.
Children are the most common victims of dog bites and more likely to be severely injured. According to the American Veterinary Medical Association, every year, more than 800,000 Americans receive medical attention for dog bites. And at least half of them are children.
Dog safety for children is a big component of the work that Mr. N's therapy dog group does. When we do therapy visits at domestic violence shelters and schools, we also educate children on how to greet dogs properly, dog body language and bite prevention.
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| Mr. N in his therapy group uniform |
- Always ask the owner for permission.
- Approach slowly and from a side angle.
- Don't lean/loom over the dog. The small dogs in Mr. N's therapy group greet the children on ottomans so they are more at a level with the kids.
- Pet gently in the direction of the fur growth.
- Don't pet dogs on the head.
- Do NOT hug the dogs. Hugging is a primate behavior, not a canine one!
Dogs who want attention have soft, relaxed body language and faces and will approach you and solicit petting. Mr. N will shove his head under your hand if he wants to be petted. If they don't, they may show signs like lip licking, turning their head away, yawning, scratching or the more obvious growling and snapping.
We talk about different dogs' tells. Mr. N has a very obvious one. His tail curls up over his back normally but when he's stressed, his tail goes straight down towards the floor (we call it "sad tail").
We talk about different dogs' tells. Mr. N has a very obvious one. His tail curls up over his back normally but when he's stressed, his tail goes straight down towards the floor (we call it "sad tail").
The dogs also get a designated "safe space" during therapy sessions in which to retreat if they need a breather. Mr. N has a fabric x-pen. We tell the children that when the dogs are in their special place, they need time to themselves and should be left alone.
We emphasize that dogs are not toys. They do not enjoy kisses, dress up, being ridden like a horse, or being picked up precariously. Unlike toys, they have feelings. They don't like when they're teased, yelled at or being bothered when they're eating.
77 percent of dog bites come from the family dog or a friend's dog. Mr. N was the demo dog for a dog safety class where one of the participants was a little boy who had been bitten by a dog at a friend's party. If he knew then what he knows now, he could have avoided that bite. If your children are aware of dog safety, it could save everyone a lot of pain and heartache!
We emphasize that dogs are not toys. They do not enjoy kisses, dress up, being ridden like a horse, or being picked up precariously. Unlike toys, they have feelings. They don't like when they're teased, yelled at or being bothered when they're eating.
77 percent of dog bites come from the family dog or a friend's dog. Mr. N was the demo dog for a dog safety class where one of the participants was a little boy who had been bitten by a dog at a friend's party. If he knew then what he knows now, he could have avoided that bite. If your children are aware of dog safety, it could save everyone a lot of pain and heartache!
Sources:
https://drsophiayin.com/blog/entry/preventing-dog-bites-by-learning-to-greet-dogs-properly/
http://eileenanddogs.com/2012/08/29/does-your-dog-really-want-to-be-petted/
http://stopthe77.com/
https://www.avma.org/public/Pages/Dog-Bite-Prevention.aspx
We're participating in a blogger collaboration for National Dog Bite Prevention Week. Check out these other blogs for our week-long series about dog (and cat) bites.
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Parents have to learn about respect for other peoples dogs AND cats. Mr N is a little rock star teaching such valuable behaviour. Let's hope adults take it on board too!
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Indeed. We see a lot of grabby adults too!
DeleteThis is excellent. I get so upset when I see people let their kids do whatever to dogs and then they get rid of them because the dog snapped at a kid. Other times people can't read their dog being stressed and just make the situation worse by their actions. I really wish that things would change and people would get required education before adopting a dog or cat. WOOF!
ReplyDeleteThanks! I think some parts of Europe do that but I don't imagine it would go over very well here (classes).
DeleteThis is an amazing post and I will share it widely with all my friends who have kids.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteGreat post! Not all dogs want attention from people and its important to understand this. It's imperative that children and adults, learn the signs and always ask before touching and approaching.
ReplyDeleteExactly. I've had someone reach over and pet Mr. N and THEN ask if he bites. Umm...
Deletewhat a great post - we are so glad there are dogs like Mr N out there helping to educate kids!
ReplyDeleteThanks! He's a little trooper.
DeleteThis is fantastic! We have a Pet Care Education group in our community that goes to area schools and teaches children the signs to look for and also what to do if they witness an animal being abused. Education is so key especially starting it at a young age.
ReplyDeleteOh that's awesome. I don't know if we have something like that here.
DeleteA Terrierific post! Children approach Oz the same way - running towards him yelling "look a puppy" and such. I wish more parents would educate their kids on properly approaching a dog. I am so glad your therapy group provides such education. That is so great. And Mr N looks like a superhero in his uniform. Love it.
ReplyDeleteI love his cape too. I think the small fluffy dogs get a lot more of that treatment.
DeleteExcellent simply excellent! You got me with the video. I thought "Oh No!!" That video is opposite to everything Mr N teaches ...and the the rewind...BRILLIANT!
ReplyDeleteSome of the photos in the video are pretty terrifying because the dogs look so freaked out!
DeleteAwesome post! I get this a lot from kids with my little chihuahua. She may be little and cute but she is the one that doesn't do well with kids. I have had ask so many times for them not to try and touch her. So thankful for these kind of post. Wonderful series and I agree it is so important to educate children and parents!
ReplyDeleteThanks! We had a foster Chihuahua who didn't like kids either and I'd put him behind me while putting Mr. N out in front and saying pet this one!
DeleteSuch simply, yet important information to teach children! Great post!
ReplyDeleteThanks!
DeleteI love that his uniform looks like a cape. What good work you and Mr N do!
ReplyDeleteThank you. He enjoys his work... and flaunting a cape.
DeleteIf I saw this dog I'd probably run up and want to hug him too. Fortunately my dog Victor, who isn't always friendly toward other dogs, loves kids and is remarkably tolerate (though of course I still monitor him). I'm his fourth home, and some of his previous homes had nasty adults but all had kids be bonded with so I think that's a source of his trust. Right now, though, he's kid free.
ReplyDeleteHe does look quite like a stuffed animal, doesn't he? Mr. N lives in a kid-free household too but he is pretty tolerant of kids.
DeleteGood information here. Kids really need to learn this stuff.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I think it's important especially with how many households have dogs these days.
DeleteI shared this powerful video. Awesome job!
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteI totally get the need for this. Montecristo is only 3.5 pounds so everything is huge to him. he was also really injured by a 12 year old a few years back. Ever since then he has trouble with kids. We do a lot of work to bring him back ... I find talking to the kids on what to do and expect helps a lot. I do it because for the most part the parents do not. Sadly.
ReplyDeletePoor Montecristo. Mr. N was injured by a kid when he was a puppy too. He had a leg fracture.
DeleteThis is hugely important. Thanks so much for sharing your insight. I remember distinctly when I was bitten as a child, and it was because I was left unattended with a strange dog, and I didn't know how to read the signs of anxiety.
ReplyDeleteThanks! It's a marvel none of us were bitten when we were little. I don't remember getting any instruction on how to interact with dogs.
DeleteThis is such an important topic - great program Mr N is in. Love those tips. We were just talking about a friend's dog that bit another friend's little daughter on the face really badly (my daughter was right next to her and we knew the dog well). He had never bitten before but had to be put down and the girl was scarred mentally and physically for life. We all think she probably did something to provoke the dog but no one saw. You are so right that kids often treat dogs like toys or tease them without understanding. Kilo the Pug will probably still bite adults that approach the wrong way or trigger his fear aggression. I am so grateful many people in our neighbourhood understand to ask before approaching and am very very careful.
ReplyDeleteThat's terrible. I'm very careful to supervise Mr. N around kids even though he is super tolerant and will put up with a lot. I don't want the kids or Mr. N getting hurt!
DeleteThese are all great tips. Thanks so much for sharing! I'm going to share it too as it is a very important topic for sure!
ReplyDeleteI love this post. Great tips and the video really drives it home.
ReplyDeleteThanks! The video is great, isn't it?
DeleteWOW!
ReplyDelete77 percent of dog bites come from the family dog or a friend's dog.
That is staggering. Great piece and I am so glad we are all writing this together this week. Paw-er to the pets who are affected and hoping folks read this series and pass it on.
I'm glad you launched the idea for this!
DeleteSUCH an important post! These preventable incidents are all too common : / Extremely powerful video as well.
ReplyDeleteThanks! It's sad how many of those incidents could be prevented!
DeleteGreat post! Its not about training your dog to be good with kids its training your kids to be good around the dog. My daughter has grown up with dogs her whole life and I am constantly teaching her to respect and be kind and she knows hugs and kisses are not for dogs.
ReplyDeleteThat's great. I have to stop so many kids from hugging Mr. N!
DeleteIt is SO important for not only kids but their parents as well to learn how to approach and respect dogs that they don't know!
ReplyDeleteExactly! I sometimes think the adults are worse lol.
DeleteBlog posts sharing this information can never get too old. Too many people misread and/or ignore the signs. Well done my friend.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I hope it makes a small difference.
DeleteGreat informative post. I love when I do get the children who ask first and are gentle with the dogs, great testament to the parents for teaching them proper animal manners.
ReplyDeleteThose kids are great! I always thank them for asking.
DeleteEven though I had dogs for 20 years, I never knew of the signs for a potential bite. Thanks for the information.
ReplyDeleteSome of the stress signs can be hard to tell unless you're used to looking for them.
DeletePart of me thinks that parents need to teach that dogs, animals in general, are not toys or 'things' but creatures that deserve love and respect equal to that of a human. A child would not want someone running up to them in the way that many run up to little dogs - we've had children try to pull our dogs out of our arms! Great post!
ReplyDeleteThanks! Mr. N has had all sorts of things happen to him as well. Small dogs look more approachable, I guess.
DeleteThis is great! I think it is really important to educate everyone about dog bite prevention. Your program sounds amazing!
ReplyDeleteThanks! We're glad to be a part of it.
DeleteIt can be tough to explain to children how to approach my dogs, but I'm amazed at how quickly they understand when I explain to them that the dogs can get scared, and sometimes show them how to give them gentle scratchies and pets. Kids know what it's like to feel shy or scared, so they can be empathetic to how the dog feels about being approached.
ReplyDeleteYou and Mr N make a great team in helping to prevent dog bites. I wish more people would help educate parents and kids about how to approach a dog.
ReplyDeleteAs the momma of a very small dog who has been chased by well-meaning but totally misguided people, I cannot thank you enough for this!
ReplyDeleteJean from Welcome to the Menagerie
I'm always pleasantly surprised when children politely ask to pet one of the dogs. It's so good to know they've learned that first important step. I hope it's because more schools are bringing in groups like yours to teach them.
ReplyDeleteThis is something many adults might need to be educated on too!
Jan, Wag 'n Woof Pets